Akzeptanz

Assalamualaikum wbt

Good evening fellas,

I'm new here.. so yeah.. i might just literally rants a lot here. So.. for those who managed to stumbled upon this blog site welcome aboard and please do bear with my languages. Ahaha

As an introduction.My name is Nawal.. yeah.. i know it is quite an odd name.. most of you must be like..
 "Uh..laki ke pempuan tuh?"
Ahahah.. tell you what.. let it remains as a secret. kekeke.. dah xde keja ke apa aku.

So, basically what i'm going to rant about today is ...


                                                
Apa itu acceptance?
1 :  an act of agreeing either expressly or by conduct to the act or offer of another so that a contract is         concluded and the parties become legally bound

2

:  the quality or state of being accepted or acceptable

3

:  the act of accepting :  the fact of being accepted :  approval

4

a :  the act of accepting a time draft or bill of exchange for payment when due according to the specified terms

b :  an accepted draft or bill of exchange

scrape off #4. Socially irrelevant. HaHa

It's a big matter isn't it? Well, it is for me.

People keep on complaining how ones can't do things right (well, obviously it was according to their definition of 'right').I used to be that kind of person.Judgmental.Egoist.Self-proclaimed righteous. You name it. But deep down i know what the others are doing are right in their own way.
 (Oi Nawal amenda hg meraban ni. Haha.) Okay..okay.. what i am trying to say is... setiap orang ada their own ways of doing,thinking,etc. Recently, my friend is being unfair to my other friend. Every single thing that she did was never right in her eyes. Why? Why? Little that i knew, she has the very same reaction as I did. Imagine.. just because of the different taste of asam pedas that she cooked in her style she was being mentally tormented. Why? Because of she/we has/have been dumb-ass egoist. Unable to accept the people's quality within. Sounds harsh. I know. That's just how I am.Direct. That is the main reason why i had hurt so many feeling before. Too proud. Too strict in expecting people will understand and bow down to my thoughts and acts.

 Hence, how did i change to whom i am today? Easy-squeezy.ACCEPT PEOPLE. No hard feeling. No harsh feeling. To tone down your pride is downgrading but then on the bright side you're actually breaking the wall of loneliness to allow more happiness and life experience to fill in your days.

Aku suka gila dengan quote : By the age of 20 you actually had the moments of facing with the bottom-rock reality of health, wealth, friends, family and etc.

Trust me. I've experienced them all. But then teringat reminder dari sorang akhwat ni (i guess you can identify my gender already ;p) Everything happens with the reasons and when you passed one stage of difficulty there's a bigger stone rolling towards you. Either you face it and be stronger or you can just ditch the place to a safer site and stay dormant and unmotivated.Well, she didn't quite say it like that because it was in Malay but i do celebrate the languages and exaggerations too .(Ahaks!)

You'll know you did the right thing the moment you try to accept as...

                                         


you will feel your body is much lighter without the burden of being self-deluded and jealousy.
Dunne.

Have a blast evening fellas! ;)